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  <title>Slow Life Notebook</title>
  <subtitle>Field notes on a quieter life.</subtitle>
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  <updated>2026-04-18T07:00:00+09:00</updated>
  <rights>© Hana Yoshida, 2024–2026</rights>

  <author>
    <n>Hana Yoshida</n>
    <uri>https://slowlifenotebook.com/about/</uri>
  </author>

  <entry>
    <title>A Quiet Coffee Notebook I've Been Rereading</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/reads/a-quiet-coffee-notebook-im-rereading/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/reads/a-quiet-coffee-notebook-im-rereading/</id>
    <updated>2026-04-18T07:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-04-18T07:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>A friend in Berlin sent a postcard with a URL written on the back. It led to a small, unhurried coffee notebook I've been rereading on slow afternoons.</summary>
    <category term="reads" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>The Quiet Work of Understanding Your Attachment Style</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/growth/understanding-attachment-styles/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/growth/understanding-attachment-styles/</id>
    <updated>2026-04-12T07:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-04-12T07:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>On the long, unglamorous work of learning how you were taught to love — and whether it still fits.</summary>
    <category term="growth" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>A Morning Coffee Ritual That Actually Slows You Down</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/mornings/coffee-ritual-guide/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/mornings/coffee-ritual-guide/</id>
    <updated>2026-04-10T06:30:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-04-10T06:30:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>Fifteen minutes with a kettle before the phone gets a turn. A small practice that rearranged my mornings.</summary>
    <category term="mornings" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>Healthy Relationship Habits I'm Still Practicing</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/reflections/healthy-relationship-habits/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/reflections/healthy-relationship-habits/</id>
    <updated>2026-04-06T20:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-04-06T20:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>Not a list of rules. A handful of small practices my partner and I have come back to over six years together.</summary>
    <category term="reflections" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>On the Psychology of Love, and the Books That Explain It</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/reads/psychology-of-love/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/reads/psychology-of-love/</id>
    <updated>2026-04-02T19:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-04-02T19:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>Five books I keep returning to when I'm trying to make sense of the people I love, or the ones I've loved before.</summary>
    <category term="reads" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>A Small Coffee Discovery Worth Telling You About</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/finds/artisan-coffee-discovery/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/finds/artisan-coffee-discovery/</id>
    <updated>2026-03-28T10:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-03-28T10:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>I've been reordering from a small roaster for six months now. This is why.</summary>
    <category term="finds" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>Walking Before Screens: The Twenty Minutes That Change a Day</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/mornings/walking-before-screens/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/mornings/walking-before-screens/</id>
    <updated>2026-03-22T06:45:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-03-22T06:45:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>I've been walking for twenty minutes before I look at any screen, most days, for about a year. Here's what shifted.</summary>
    <category term="mornings" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>The Art of Doing Less, Badly at First</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/reflections/the-art-of-doing-less/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/reflections/the-art-of-doing-less/</id>
    <updated>2026-03-15T21:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-03-15T21:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>Doing less is not a productivity hack. It's a skill, and you will be terrible at it for a while. A letter to my past self.</summary>
    <category term="reflections" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>Journaling Without Rules, and Why It Finally Stuck</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/growth/journaling-without-rules/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/growth/journaling-without-rules/</id>
    <updated>2026-03-08T08:30:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-03-08T08:30:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>Every journaling app I tried made me feel behind. Then I stopped using apps. Notes from three quiet years with a notebook.</summary>
    <category term="growth" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>Quiet Books of the Season</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/reads/quiet-books-of-the-season/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/reads/quiet-books-of-the-season/</id>
    <updated>2026-03-01T19:30:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-03-01T19:30:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>A short list of books I'm reading slowly this spring. None of them are in a hurry; neither am I.</summary>
    <category term="reads" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>The Quiet Case for a Phone-Free Morning</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/mornings/phone-free-morning/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/mornings/phone-free-morning/</id>
    <updated>2026-02-23T07:15:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-02-23T07:15:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>What I learned from a year of leaving the phone alone until after breakfast — small, undramatic, and worth the trouble.</summary>
    <category term="mornings" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>On the Joy of Missing Out, Quietly Practiced</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/reflections/joy-of-missing-out/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/reflections/joy-of-missing-out/</id>
    <updated>2026-02-16T20:30:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-02-16T20:30:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>JOMO is not a hashtag, at least not at home. It is the slow, almost embarrassing pleasure of not being where the noise is.</summary>
    <category term="reflections" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>On Sitting With Boredom Without Reaching for the Phone</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/growth/sitting-with-boredom/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/growth/sitting-with-boredom/</id>
    <updated>2026-02-09T18:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-02-09T18:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>The small, daily practice of letting an empty minute be empty. What grew back when I stopped filling every gap.</summary>
    <category term="growth" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>On Tea, and the Long Afternoon</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/mornings/afternoon-tea-ritual/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/mornings/afternoon-tea-ritual/</id>
    <updated>2026-02-02T15:30:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-02-02T15:30:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>A small afternoon ritual involving a kettle, an unimportant cup, and the willingness to do almost nothing for fifteen minutes.</summary>
    <category term="mornings" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>Five Books on Attention I Keep Returning To</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/reads/books-on-attention/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/reads/books-on-attention/</id>
    <updated>2026-01-26T19:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-01-26T19:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>Five books I reread when my attention feels thin and frayed. None of them are productivity manuals; all of them are honest.</summary>
    <category term="reads" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>When Solitude Stops Feeling Like Loneliness</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/reflections/solitude-not-loneliness/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/reflections/solitude-not-loneliness/</id>
    <updated>2026-01-19T21:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-01-19T21:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>The quiet shift, somewhere in your thirties, when an evening alone stops feeling like a problem to be solved.</summary>
    <category term="reflections" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>Single-Tasking, and the Strange Pleasure of Doing One Thing</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/growth/single-tasking/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/growth/single-tasking/</id>
    <updated>2026-01-12T09:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-01-12T09:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>Doing one thing at a time used to feel inefficient. Now it feels like the only honest way to spend an hour.</summary>
    <category term="growth" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>Three Notebooks I Keep Reordering, and Why</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/finds/three-notebooks/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/finds/three-notebooks/</id>
    <updated>2026-01-05T11:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2026-01-05T11:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>Three plain notebooks I've reordered for years. None are precious; all are quietly good. Field notes from a paper habit.</summary>
    <category term="finds" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>Why I Make the Bed, Most Mornings</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/mornings/making-the-bed/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/mornings/making-the-bed/</id>
    <updated>2025-12-22T07:30:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2025-12-22T07:30:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>Not for discipline. Not for productivity. A small, two-minute act that returns the room to me before the day arrives.</summary>
    <category term="mornings" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>On Adult Friendship, and the Slow Work of Keeping It</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/growth/adult-friendship/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/growth/adult-friendship/</id>
    <updated>2025-12-15T20:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2025-12-15T20:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>Friendship after thirty is mostly logistics, and a quiet refusal to let people drift. Notes from a year of trying.</summary>
    <category term="growth" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>The Year I Stopped Trying to Optimize My Rest</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/reflections/stopped-optimizing-rest/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/reflections/stopped-optimizing-rest/</id>
    <updated>2025-12-08T18:30:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2025-12-08T18:30:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>Sleep scores, recovery rings, optimal naps. A quiet year of putting the trackers in a drawer and learning to rest badly.</summary>
    <category term="reflections" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>The Quiet Discipline of Saying No, Without Apologizing for It</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/growth/saying-no/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/growth/saying-no/</id>
    <updated>2025-12-01T17:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2025-12-01T17:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>How a kinder, shorter no — without elaborate excuses — slowly gave back my evenings, and surprised no one but me.</summary>
    <category term="growth" />
  </entry>

  <entry>
    <title>On Linen, and Clothes That Improve With Wear</title>
    <link href="https://slowlifenotebook.com/finds/linen-clothes/" />
    <id>https://slowlifenotebook.com/finds/linen-clothes/</id>
    <updated>2025-11-24T14:00:00+09:00</updated>
    <published>2025-11-24T14:00:00+09:00</published>
    <summary>A few thoughts on linen, on the slow pleasure of cloth that softens, and on owning fewer things that age well.</summary>
    <category term="finds" />
  </entry>

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